When you are writing after a long time, properly writing, anyway...you are constantly bothered by the uncertainty of whether it is a temporary creative spurt, or whether it is actually your ability to string words for hours and hours that has returned to you. Considering the fact that you have not written in what seems like (and probably is) months, you would expect it to come back to you tainted. Accompanied by an inferior memory of words and rustiness when it comes to translating your thoughts. This has been my first proper, true-to-the-word writer's block. And I'm very pleasantly surprised to find my writing come back to me intact. Almost like it had been stowed away in some dark corner, packaged properly in bubble wrap and one fine Saturday morning, it lands on your lap, untouched and so familiar.
Which just goes to show how much the state of your mind matters when it comes to the proper manifestation on your talent(s). I personally regret the fact that I was not born with a natural ability for anything spectacular. When I voiced this out to my parents (in separate instances), my father, the perfect blend of pragmatism and optimism, pointed out that I had a way with words. The gift of the gab, as a friend described it very early in my life. My mother, e possessing the kind of blind love only a mother can, told me I was the nicest person she know, and that was enough for a lifetime.
I wish I could take either of them more seriously. But I'm far too skeptical for that.
How much weight does my mother's claim have, when she is unaware of 90% of the shenanigans I have got myself wrapped up in while growing up?
As for my Dad...I think I can write. But I mostly attribute it to the amount of thoughts in my head at any given point of time. It would be impossible to let them remain that way, and not give them words.
One of the most exasperating feelings in the world is when you fail to convey that your musings are not a way of asking for reassurances. In fact, most of the times, you just want them to be voiced out, since they are threatening to overwhelm your mind. You don't want a reaction to them.
Anyway. I can see an opportunity when it is placed before me. And I am going to write whenever I find the urge to.
I am thinking I should continue my practice of not mentioning names in my blog. Not for any other reason but for the fact that it is at times a little disturbing to find your name written out on anybody's journal, free for anybody to see. So I'll stick to fictitious names instead of initials (something I have done for the last 4 years in my other blog, which got a little confusing after a point of time).
More later (and there is such joy in meaning this)
M
Later.
Irrationality and more irrationality. The lows to which my mind can take me still has a capacity to astound. Day 2 of the Indulgence Pact with myself has been a disappointment, mostly. I ended up spending most of the day reading or sleeping or eating so frequently, I'm actually not even exaggerating when I say I must have gained a pound or two over the last two days.
Somewhere through what was possibly my 5th meal of the day, I stopped, fork in my mouth and everything, and pictured myself sitting the same way, years into the future, a much fatter version of what I am now, eating away my emotions. Isn't that what it is called when eating is your answer to everything? Sometimes I swear that is exactly how it is for me.
How shameful.
The problem with sleeping too much, for me, is dreaming too much. And that is exactly why I never slept in the afternoon while growing up. I would get vivid unpleasant dreams (not exactly nightmares, but equally disturbing) and wake up shaking like a leaf, trying to explain to someone why I was so scared of sleeping in the day. Why I thought any of that would change overnight is beyond me. I am almost too scared to go back to bed now till absolutely necessary.
And then the second I would wake up and pull myself together (As my friend the Goopster would advice) I would be so consumed in irrational, negative thoughts, the only other option would be to shut myself off completely and feed into it some more. Vicious cycle much?
Absolutely.
I'm getting a little tired of stewing around in this perpetual self imposed glumness now and like always, Im going to start working to distract/tire myself till I'm back to normal. Because right now, talking to people would just cause more damage. My best friend texted me a while ago telling me what an amazing day he had and it took me ALL my strength and maturity to reply back with civility. Have you ever noticed how you so promptly snap back against the people you love the most? It's like you have taken them and their patience for granted and given yourself a permanent license to be as moody and temperamental with them as you wish to be.
I saved him some of that today. Pat back Misha.
Okay. Must study. Need to stop procrastinating.
Which just goes to show how much the state of your mind matters when it comes to the proper manifestation on your talent(s). I personally regret the fact that I was not born with a natural ability for anything spectacular. When I voiced this out to my parents (in separate instances), my father, the perfect blend of pragmatism and optimism, pointed out that I had a way with words. The gift of the gab, as a friend described it very early in my life. My mother, e possessing the kind of blind love only a mother can, told me I was the nicest person she know, and that was enough for a lifetime.
I wish I could take either of them more seriously. But I'm far too skeptical for that.
How much weight does my mother's claim have, when she is unaware of 90% of the shenanigans I have got myself wrapped up in while growing up?
As for my Dad...I think I can write. But I mostly attribute it to the amount of thoughts in my head at any given point of time. It would be impossible to let them remain that way, and not give them words.
One of the most exasperating feelings in the world is when you fail to convey that your musings are not a way of asking for reassurances. In fact, most of the times, you just want them to be voiced out, since they are threatening to overwhelm your mind. You don't want a reaction to them.
Anyway. I can see an opportunity when it is placed before me. And I am going to write whenever I find the urge to.
I am thinking I should continue my practice of not mentioning names in my blog. Not for any other reason but for the fact that it is at times a little disturbing to find your name written out on anybody's journal, free for anybody to see. So I'll stick to fictitious names instead of initials (something I have done for the last 4 years in my other blog, which got a little confusing after a point of time).
More later (and there is such joy in meaning this)
M
Later.
Irrationality and more irrationality. The lows to which my mind can take me still has a capacity to astound. Day 2 of the Indulgence Pact with myself has been a disappointment, mostly. I ended up spending most of the day reading or sleeping or eating so frequently, I'm actually not even exaggerating when I say I must have gained a pound or two over the last two days.
Somewhere through what was possibly my 5th meal of the day, I stopped, fork in my mouth and everything, and pictured myself sitting the same way, years into the future, a much fatter version of what I am now, eating away my emotions. Isn't that what it is called when eating is your answer to everything? Sometimes I swear that is exactly how it is for me.
How shameful.
The problem with sleeping too much, for me, is dreaming too much. And that is exactly why I never slept in the afternoon while growing up. I would get vivid unpleasant dreams (not exactly nightmares, but equally disturbing) and wake up shaking like a leaf, trying to explain to someone why I was so scared of sleeping in the day. Why I thought any of that would change overnight is beyond me. I am almost too scared to go back to bed now till absolutely necessary.
And then the second I would wake up and pull myself together (As my friend the Goopster would advice) I would be so consumed in irrational, negative thoughts, the only other option would be to shut myself off completely and feed into it some more. Vicious cycle much?
Absolutely.
I'm getting a little tired of stewing around in this perpetual self imposed glumness now and like always, Im going to start working to distract/tire myself till I'm back to normal. Because right now, talking to people would just cause more damage. My best friend texted me a while ago telling me what an amazing day he had and it took me ALL my strength and maturity to reply back with civility. Have you ever noticed how you so promptly snap back against the people you love the most? It's like you have taken them and their patience for granted and given yourself a permanent license to be as moody and temperamental with them as you wish to be.
I saved him some of that today. Pat back Misha.
Okay. Must study. Need to stop procrastinating.